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Problem solved. I have spent months trying to find the problem, checking all the following and finding small snags on the way:
1. Fuel system
2. Ignition system
3. Fuel injection system
4. ECU information systems.
5. Engine components.
After checking all this and replacing duff components (it's amazing what you find wrong and the engine will still run

). I still had the hot start problem. I read other forums for ideas and everyone was stating stuff I had checked (and double checked

)
At the end of my tether I decided to contact David Marks who was brilliant.
The early 3.6's with the V12 fuel injection system suffer a lot from this problem and amazingly the first check is not atomising fuel, valve clearances, information senders to ECU or fuel problems. The issue is to do with timing
What happens is the timing chains stretch over time (yep we all knew this one) but what occurs is the cams fall out of timing with the pistons so much so that when under normal fuel conditions the car will not start.
I set TDC of No1 piston with a DTI and then tried putting my cam setting tool across the cam and it showed that the cams were at least 2 degrees out!!!!.
I slackened the top chain tensioner and reset the cams using the setting tool leaving No 1 piston at TDC. I then redid the timing and guess what the car now starts first time everytime

.
We have seen on here resetting the tappets clearances had the same affect but this is probably because the cams are reset using the camsetting tool to TDc of No. 1 piston at the end of the set up. All I have to do now is send the ECU off to AJ6 Engineering and get the AC working. The car has now passed through it's first 200 miles with no other ill effects.
Thanks to David Marks for his help (can't recommend him enough) and I hope this information helps other 3.6 owners with the same problem.
